30 Days of Kink, Day 18

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?



2 things come to mind:


1. How it ends up being so cliquish.. People want to play with their friends, I totally understand. But a new person trying to get in sometimes feels intimidated.


2. The pervasive idea that "True Dominants/Submissives" only act certain ways, and if they don't adhere to those arbitrary, prescribed ways (including daring to be switches), then they are simply considered to only be pretending. People are multifaceted, and so someone can have aspects of both. Stop compartmentalizing people!