Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 23: Well, the biggest change has been realizing that kink is a lot more prevalent than it appears to be. If everyone who is kinky in some way admitted it, this country might look incredibly different. Hell, the world as a whole would.

Day 24: Tenderness, an open mind and heart, and a willingness to experiment. Geekiness helps a lot too.